Hi
Although it may seem like it I am not shallow or a collector.
The first day I was on I went to all the girls (ya I like girls but do have a few guy friends on here) in my area and all the ones that showed up in Cool New People and would add those that asked to be added.
I have beyond the first few days only asked a small hand full of people to add me as a friend and those that have posted add me.
Ya lots of them are pretty but being an ex-photographer I know that looks are not that important when it comes to friendship/relationships.
I cherish every friend here and those that send me comments or comment on my pixs I will return the favor.
Some of them are just names others I have added to my yahoo or aim and talk to on a regular basis.
I will check out people .. and friends of friends to see if

1) They seem like nice people to have around
2) If they will be there.

I find it hard for me to trust mostly girls because of things that have happened in my past.
That has caused problems with every relationship I have tried to have sense because it is hard for me not to show lack of trust.
I think that a person should be judged not only on the friends they keep but on how well they treat there friends and vice versa.

I don't limit my friends I chose people with similar likes but I also chose friend that are different just so that way I can experience new and different things. If everyone I chose were all the same then what’s the point life is an experience and if you just keep doing the same things over and over then you’re not really experiencing life.

You can chose to accept me or not as a friend or not your choice.

mmm where to begin. Some of this stuff from my blog but it bares repeating ;) I use to be a Photographer (mostly nude and semi-nude) I have shot a cover for Playboy, it is apart of my life but something I really don't want to dwell on or really talk about beyond this so don't ask me to prove it, you believe it or not your choice.

I got out of it because I of reasons that really I don't want to post here. I now am self employed building and fixing computers and networks and creating websites. I do sometimes work for a marketing company. I am also a published poet, if you ask I may share one of my poems with you. My mom lives with me because she has had 2 stroked and a minor heart attack.

Right now I don't have a gf, I joke to friends that if I were to walk in to a room with 10,000 girls and just 1 psycho I would find her and date her.

I don't hate anyone because of race, religion or sex.
If I hate you its because you gave me a reason to hate you.

In my main pix is my pets I love them very much and they me, and yes my cat gets along with my birds.

I am one of those guys that believe there is someone for everyone a soul mate if you will the problem is just finding them.